Learn With Me

I offer private lessons, coaching and group workshops across a wide range of topics, from pleasure, intimacy and couples reconnection to communication, embodiment, BDSM, kink, fetish and professional development in the sex industry.

You can also work with me around injury, past experiences, intimacy after birth, sex education and developing greater confidence in yourself and the way you work with others.

See below to explore what and how you can learn with me, try something new, build confidence and create the life you deserve.

Private Lessons & Coaching

For professional development, personal growth, or better intimacy skills and improved experiences.

Private lessons are tailored to your interests, goals and level of experience.

Single lessons:
1 hour: $150
Longer, in-depth lessons: 2+ hours, $100 per additional hour

Package deal:
5 × 1.5-hour lessons: $750
Same price as 5 × 1-hour lessons.

You are welcome to bring one friend or partner at no additional cost.

    • Positions, angles & techniques

    • Sex toys and how to use them

    • Pain-free anal

    • Squirting

    • Different kinds of touch

    • Therapeutic vs sensual massage

    • Mutual massage

    • Arousal and anticipation

    • Pleasure and sensation mapping

    • Sensory exploration

    • Exploring desires and fantasies

    • Body awareness and embodiment

    • Building confidence with pleasure and intimacy

    • Communicating wants, limits and changing consent during intimacy

    • Turning mistakes and awkward moments into learning and growth

    • Advanced sex education

    • Practical sexual skills

    • Dom skills and development

    • Being a skilled submissive

    • Permission to switch between Dom and sub

    • Allowing yourself to receive without having to perform or control

    • Scene creation and construction

    • Shibari and rope

    • Impact play and flogging

    • Power exchange

    • Turning touch and sensation into anticipation, fear, control and play

    • Creating characters and roleplay

    • Fantasy exploration

    • Working with taboo or socially unacceptable fantasies and scenes

    • Sensory play and deprivation

    • Bondage and restraints

    • Teasing and denial

    • Spanking and slapping

    • Specialist and advanced play

    • Pain science

    • BDSM safety and risk awareness

    • Safewords, consent and negotiation

    • Ethics, consent and negotiation

    • Aftercare and scene debriefing

    • Creating your own brand

    • Profiles, advertising and marketing

    • Building services around your capacity, boundaries and strengths

    • Vetting and screening clients

    • Staying safe

    • Client communication

    • Creating and maintaining professional boundaries

    • Consent and ethical practice

    • Understanding the laws that apply to your work

    • Working professionally outside attraction

    • Movement, angles and adapting to different body sizes

    • Building trust and connection with clients

    • Using touch and massage to build arousal, connection and atmosphere

    • Pacing, boundaries and consent during intimate touch

    • Ethical client retention

    • Professional development and longevity

    • Client-led practice

    • Trauma-informed practice

    • Active listening

    • Creating a safe environment for clients to share

    • Working with clients with disabilities

    • Exploring one-way touch

    • Who is it for?

    • Couples connection and communication

    • Helping clients find more pleasure

    • Working with shame, fear and intimacy barriers

    • Building confidence and self-trust

    • Teaching consent to clients

    • Managing expectations and boundaries

    • Therapeutic communication skills

    • Nervous system awareness and regulation

    • Chronic pain and pain science

    • Using touch to support safety, trust and awareness

    • Supporting personal exploration

    • Asking for what you want

    • Expressing wants, needs and boundaries

    • Saying no

    • Hearing and respecting a no

    • Listening and open-ended questions

    • Building trust and safety

    • Consent

    • Ongoing and changing consent

    • Negotiating touch

    • Giving and receiving feedback

    • Difficult conversations

    • Repair after conflict or rupture

    • Communicating during intimacy

    • Checking in as touch or intimacy changes

    • Negotiation

    • Creating a safe space to explore and share

    • Deserving touch, intimacy and connection

  • Intro to Kink: breaking the stigma of trying something new.

    Sensory exploration: Deprived or Overwhelmed.
    Neurodiversity and sensory overload, how to remove sensory input, how to play with what you got and how to add more until its torture.

    Shibari: Rope play, creating a scene with all the senses heightened or removed.

    In your face: Using the body as a tool, up close and personal with the face.

    Tie and Teas and Denial: The journey.
    Exploring sensations and possibilities, restrictions, bondage, edging and denial.

    Flogging for everyone involved: Don’t just spank with it!
    how to enjoy flogging as the person flogging, how to put on a show, how to use two, how to bring it from feathers to pain in dance.

    Overcoming Chronic Pain: The science behind neuroplastic pain and techniques to manage it.

    Pain/Chronic pain and Kink: Understanding pain, adding, removing or replacing it.

    Pain-free Anal: Anal should never hurt!
    How to go from a finger to fist without pain, how to clean, how to create a safe space.

    Pegging: Move and position yourself.
    How to move your hips, how to prepare, how to position giver and the receiver, different strap on methods and the difference in toys.

    Sounding: The penis and vulva (internal urethral stimulation)

Group Workshops & Events

For hens nights, private parties, festivals, functions, community events, professional development and other groups.

Workshops can be tailored to your group, interests, experience and the kind of event you are creating.

Group bookings:
Rates are negotiated based on group size, duration, location and what you would like created.

Custom workshops and existing workshop topics can both be adapted to suit your group.

Custom Learning

If there is something specific you want to learn that is not listed here, ask me. Private teaching can focus on one skill, combine several areas, or be created around a particular goal or experience.