Master Kai Silver

A blonde-haired Dominant figure stands across the room, his height towering over you, the inquisition of his piercing eyes upon you. With strident steps he comes towards you. Swiftly you are manoeuvred into a position providing for the visual and physical access he desires. Your neck lowered, a firm collar is placed around your neck, and buckled tight. You both know why you are here, and how you got yourself into this vulnerable situation. There has been much advance communication, expressing your desires which have in turn been further probed, alongside boundaries.

Standing now behind you, rope cordage weaves around your body, rendering you bound and increasingly helpless. He wraps his strong left arm over your shoulder, enclosing you, while his fingers reach to your right nipple, which stands to attention. The rules are reiterated; you are, now his plaything, property, toy, slave, slut - with the taboo words chosen deliberately to wet your holes, as a finger runs over your mouth to your bottom lip, pushing down and opening wider.

His eyes catch yours in the mirror, and a knowing sly smile is exchanged. A flogger is run down your back and over the curve of your arse, teasing you, flicks playfully between your thighs, and then withdraws, in preparation for the kiss of impact to come as the sting of its tails meet skin. A small plaintive moan passes from your lips. Your surrender to his dominant force is inevitable.

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2023

Let me guide you through the shadows

Many deeply long to explore their submissive side, but lack the knowledge, trust or a suitable partner with whom they can safely explore and step into this part of themselves.

I would be honoured for you to embark on this journey with me. I am an expert in this area, having formally trained and worked at Melbourne’s oldest and only dedicated dungeon, Fetish House. This consists of learning to play expertly in terms of technique, safety and ethical standards and also of understanding the nuances of people’s minds, psychologies, deepest desires and fantasies. It is an area in which I am deeply informed and well-practiced, but also one which I very genuinely enjoy.

I like to learn your reactions, your body’s exquisite responses, your breathing, your moans, your scent, and the sight of your surrender and ecstasy. To learn where that is for you, to explore those depths of your mind, body and soul.

Kink and BDSM (Bondage and Discipline, Domination and Submission, Sadism and Masochism), is a very large umbrella which incorporates all kinds of play and pleasures, fetishes and fantasies. Let’s find your thing, is it dress-up and role-play, restraints or pain, or something more taboo? I enjoy indulging in your fantasies, guiding you deeper into the unexplored, as you share your secrets with me.

You may well know, deep within you, from where your desire springs; the particular things which arouse you deeply at the thought of them. Perhaps watching a particular movie, there’s a scene which brought up a strong arousal within you. Perhaps that scene is in your head, an impression of a power dynamic, some element of danger or taboo, of being held captive and made to submit to a powerful erotic figure of force. There may be some exquisite little details to this scene of yours, or perhaps it is painted in broad strokes and I can help you fill it in. 

Let’s play that scene and dynamic. We can start where you feel comfortable, and you can be assured I am a confident and skilled lead. I enjoy being an initiator into this new world, or to extend your journey further than you may have gone previously, into the depths you long to be taken to.

Lets explore the shadows together.

What to expect

I welcome everyone, solos or couples, all gender expressions, disabilities, all regardless of experience level. Whether you want to surprise your partner with some new skills by delving into your dominant side, I am happy to show and teach you, I even submit to regular clients (switch).

For new clients, I recommend scheduling a session for at least 1.5-2 hours depending on the activities you want included. An introduction is a great opportunity to calm the nerves, have a drink at convenient location or just go for a walk in a park.

Certain activities will require time and negotiation, to ensure everyone involved understands each other’s limits and boundaries (both physical and mental) beforehand, and also allow time for appropriate aftercare. These are consideration to take into account when choosing the length of the session, to make sure you get the opportunity to fully immerse yourself in your chosen experience.

Kink and BDSM isn’t all about pain as many think - you don’t have to have had a bad childhood or been through abuse, it is anything you want it to be. It can involve control or loss of control, exploring and trying new things, letting yourself be free in a risk aware, consensual environment.

My ethos involves honest and clear communication between all parties involved. It’s important clients have an understanding of themselves and their own limitations as this will drive the most satisfying outcomes.

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